How to Improve Your Social Life and Make Friends in College
Starting college is an exciting time, but it can also be a little nerve-racking, especially when it comes to building a social life. You’re in a new environment with so many people to meet, but the thought of putting yourself out there might feel overwhelming. The good news? It’s easier than you might think, and with a few simple strategies, you can build meaningful connections that last beyond graduation.
How to Be More Social in College
If you’re looking to be more social in college, the first step is to actively seek out opportunities to meet people. You can always start small. Here’s how:
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Be open and approachable. Smile, make eye contact, and show a genuine interest in others. Sometimes, being approachable is all it takes to start a conversation (in just about any context or situation).
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Attend social events. Go to campus events, whether they’re organized by your dorm, your academic department, or the student union. These gatherings — especially those designed specifically for freshmen — provide a low-pressure, welcoming environment for interacting with others.
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Join clubs and organizations. Get involved in clubs or student organizations that align with your interests. This allows you to meet peer groups in college with something in common to talk about.
How to Make Friends in College
Making friends in college is an organic process that can’t be forced, but it also doesn’t have to be difficult. Here are some tips:
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Start with small talk. Asking someone a passing logistical question about a class, event, or dorm protocol can turn into an easy exchange in which you learn about their major, where they’re from, and what they’re into. It can be the beginning of a lasting friendship.
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Attend study groups. Academic settings can also be social ones. Joining or forming study groups not only helps with coursework but also gives you a chance to bond with classmates.
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Be patient. Building friendships takes time (and sometimes surviving minor mishaps together). Don’t get discouraged if you don’t find your best friend in the first week. Keep putting yourself out there, and eventually you’ll find your people.
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